How Do You Climax?

Thanks everyone for talking about what the term 'slut' means to them. In my opinion, I think a slut can be defined, as Ella says, by his/her approach to sex: "Attitude is key. With 'slutty' there's an air of desperation too, like one is getting validation from the sex and needs to put one's self WAY out there in order to get it."

As for the Slut Podcast, I think I might be able to upload it here later on. But for the record, regarding penis size, Rachael said that a big dick is important to her. Gets her off, apparently. While I said I've had a few big dicks and found them to be pretty uncomfortable. I don't recall ever sleeping with an underendowed man, mainly because if the guy takes his pants off and it looks like a pencil, you basically usually remember an important appointment you have to get to, even if it is one in the morning, and you get the hell out of there, don't you? Average sized dicks are perfectly fine, in my opinion.

I'm in a bloody good mood because for once in my life Lady Luck is shining on me. A fortnight ago, when I was in New York at a comedy club, I filled out a raffle ticket. Yesterday, the comedy club phoned me to inform me that I have won ten free tickets to the club. The hand of fate is once again pushing me towards New York. Yes, I am going this weekend. With my husband. My friend Annabelle is still in Uganda so we can stay in her apartment on the Upper West Side. Fucking excellent! Daisy, in a moment of madness, said she'd watch the kids. So we are off.

It took the edge off yesterday, which was my birthday. I turned thirty-six, which is ridiculous. The kids made me thirty-two sheets of paper, each with a candle painted on it and stuck the papers on the wall as a birthday tribute. This is because I had told my husband that I do not want to get older than thirty-two. Or rather, I refuse to get older than thirty-two. So, here's to me having a great thirty-third year!!

Women, please take some time to do my Orgasm Poll (on the left). A female friend of mine (perhaps unusually?) can only orgasm through intercourse and hates oral sex. She comes very quickly through intercourse and wonders how typical this is. She feels she is just like a guy (?) in that she doesn't want to have sex for very long, and just wants to come. She doesn't have time to poll all her friends so I said I'd help her out. She wants to know whether it is unusual to not like oral sex and only want to climax through intercourse?

I am also thinking of starting a new blog answering sexual problems. What do you think I should call it? I am looking for something funny/quirky.